Fake members on dating sites
Why would so many young women with nude profiles want to contact a 66 year old man who has no photograph in his profile? This is all completely fabricated using very sophisticated computer software programs that have built being built exclusively to manipulate and trick male members into believing they're being contacted by hot local women.It's all a sham being used to get male members to upgrade to paid memberships.It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after.
Even sites that may once have been good can go bad.
After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.
My preferences would be Club Intimate, Fling, Adult Match Doctor, and Get It On, As for adult dating sites that I don't recommend, see my reviews for Shag Pal and Adult Friend Finder.
My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section; you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters).
You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.